What It Feels Like For A Mom
As a mom
You are never lonely
Someone is always with you
Especially if you need to potty
Someone always checks on you
When you’re showering
When you’re sleeping
When you’re sneaking out
To wrap presents
Or just catch a few seconds alone
In peace
Then there’s lollipop in your hair
Which aids the dreadlock braids
Put in
Just before someone else tries to run a fin-toothed comb through your hair
There are always stains
Everywhere
On clothes
On furniture
On walls
There are also always lots of hugs
And lots of kisses
With plenty of slobber
And germs
And snot galore
To seal those kisses in
And no child ever feels better
Til mom gets that bug too
You always have lovely pictures
Painted on the walls
Sometimes on the floor
Plus you never need again paint
Your own nails
Or your toes
Ever again it seems
Or even put on your own make-up
If you can find where it’s been hidden
Either by you or someone else well-meaning
Someone tries on all your clothes before you do
Especially your shoes
Before wadding everything up
And shoving it
Way far back
In the back of your closet
Just in case you need it any time soon
So it will be safe and ready for you
And so you miss those stains and those tears
Because accidents have to happen
Someone always pats you on the back
Usually with grungy sticky muddy hands
At just that point
Where your brain is about to explode
You always get flowers
Sometimes from a store
But they are so much prettier
When trailing roots and dirt
Out of your own garden
Or the neighbour’s
And getting all over the floor
More than likely freshly washed
There’s no other thing in
The whole world
Like being a mom
There’s just nothing like it
It’s really just
The best
experienced by Raven TK
http://onthewrongsideofthemirror.wordpress.com/






If ever there was a zen challenge it is motherhood!
kvwordsmith
July 18, 2008 at 7:50 pm
Oh how very very true! I chuckled all the way through this, but I had a lump in my throat too, missing those days…
Gail
July 19, 2008 at 3:43 am
I never was a mother, but I have to admire those who do what must be the hardest job in the world, and they do it so well with love and understanding.
Vi
woodnymph
July 19, 2008 at 1:52 pm
I was sitting there one day after my 7yo painted my toenails, wondering how to pry my toes apart before the paint in between them dried too much, without her knowing what I was doing–and I wrote this– I am still trying to get all the nail polish off though
Raven TK
July 19, 2008 at 4:26 pm
Grins of recognition on my face as I read this…lovely – wonderful memories .
Jill
July 19, 2008 at 6:14 pm